The Girl from Mostar: A Heartbreaking Reality in Pictures

Dateline Mostar, Bosnia and Hercegovina 2015… yet another innocent child thrust into a parallel universe by accident of birth…

Saying anything more would require a gut wrenching reckoning with centuries of bigotry, racism, sexism, poverty, exploitation, violence, stereotyping, scapegoating, and more.


I will allow the images to speak for themselves.

little roma girl in dress and sandals looking at passers by

little roma girl stepping into the street and approaching people going about their day

little roma girl approaches two women who look at her and smile

one of the ladies places here hand on the little girls shoulder seemingly to protect her as two young ladies pass by on roller skates

the little roma approaches me as she plays with her hands

the little girl reaches out her hand as two ladies pass by one lady ignores her while the other lady looks at her without showing any emotion

the little girl playfully crosses the street taking big strides and swinging her arms

an old lady who seems to have just finished shopping passes by the little girl as the little girl looks down on her empty hands

the little girl smiles as she playful dances with her arms

the little girl stands in an empty part of the street expressionless with her eyes closed and hands folded in front of her

the little girl hands something very small to her mother who is dressed in a very colorful flowing skirt

two roma mothers one carrying a baby looking down the street with some concern as the little girl looks on

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17 thoughts on “The Girl from Mostar: A Heartbreaking Reality in Pictures

  1. …and they spoke loud and clear.
    Incidentally, I’m from Philadelphia and have gotten to know many people who managed to escape from Bosnia in the early 90s. They are among the finest people I had the pleasure of knowing.

    1. Thanks so much for your words of appreciation, Michael… and for sharing your personal experiences of people that most Americans know nothing about.

  2. So heartbreaking to see the kids begging on the streets and cafes etc. Saw much of that in Zagreb, Croatia a couple of months ago also. Always of Gypsy ethnicity that I saw and the word is that they are forced by their parents or family to beg, given the lowest limit they must bring back from begging… Just makes me so angry at the parents who do this to their children.

    1. I share your heartbreak, Ina. Alas, such is a common practice in Africa, Asia, and the Americas as well. One solution, of course, is to refrain from giving the child money. Well meaning tourists don’t realize that their generosity only encourages and perpetuates the exploitation. Here’s hoping.

  3. Way to get around the dualisms inherent in words! You used just enough of them to caption the story those pictures told better than any more of them ever could. I have to admire your technique here in difficult territory. Most effective!

  4. Such a beautiful child. In the frame that moved me the most, she appears to be trying to touch the hand of a woman who seems to be brushing her away. But your litany of The Girl from Mostar’s place in life is in itself memorable.

    1. Thanks for the words of appreciation and for sharing your thoughts, Annie.

      To be fair to the woman in question, I believe it was an impulse to protect the girl from ME… until she realized, almost instantly, that I was not a threat in the least. On the contrary, I wish I could have rescued that sweet innocent child from the insanity she is trapped in.

      Alas, she’ll never know that decent people like you and I even know she exists, much less care enough to cry for her from a distance as we lament her meager prospects in life.

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